source: Peg Steep. "6 ways to spot a narcissist from day 1"
https://blogs.psychcentral.com/knotted/2018/05/6-ways-to-spot-a-narcissist-from-day-1/?li_source=LI&li_medium=popular17
1. has life on SPEED dial -- sweeps you off your feet
2. exerts stable CONTROL -- runs your life without even noticing it, forgetting your own wants and needs, tells you these are all "for you"
3. HOW he tells a story -- (a) he's the hero, (b) others are to blame, (c) thinking style: black & white, win or lose
4. WHAT he shares & doesn't -- stories inconsistent with observations & facts
5. social circle -- connects to people he can USE
NB: the 1st in the list is actually the person the narcissist is drawn to -- one whose emotional needs were not met as a child and so, confuses masochism with love!
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